I’m getting married аחԁ mу uncle іѕ tһе minister, mу second cousin іѕ doing tһе piano, аחԁ a guy mу mom works wіtһ ԁοеѕ DJing οח tһе side. All οf tһеm ѕаіԁ tһеу don’t want money fοr іt, bυt I feel ohligated tο still give tһеm a touch. Hοw much ѕһουƖԁ i pay tһеm?
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I wouldn’t worry about getting your uncle anything, since he’s so accurate to you. For the pianist, offer 100, or a gift card equivalent maybe; 300 for the dj, since he’s not a relation.
For our wedding, my husband’s brother was the main priest, and the other two priests were our friends. None of them would accept anything, but gracious thanks from us.
Id say $40 or $50, at least offer it, just place it in a card then they wont know til later and doubtless wont give it back. And only that much because he/she doubtless place time into practicing the music to make it perfect for you.
Or we got our minister a book from a christian book store.
Oh dang… I didn’t even reckon about paying them!
My uncle is the minister and my other uncle is DJing.
If they don’t want you to pay them, then I would send a "thank you" type letter and place the money in there. That way, they can’t do anything about it other than keep it. If they really don’t want you to pay them even if, I wouldn’t. I know sometimes if you still pay them, they get upset/mad and feel terrible for taking the money.