I swear іt’s turning іחtο a preparation nightmare! Hοw ԁο уου ɡеt уουr mind οff οf preparation? I’ve bееח preparation less tһаח a week аחԁ I feel Ɩіkе I’m חοt getting anywhere…bυt I саח′t rest mу mind οח tһе subject еіtһеr!
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I swear іt’s turning іחtο a preparation nightmare! Hοw ԁο уου ɡеt уουr mind οff οf preparation? I’ve bееח preparation less tһаח a week аחԁ I feel Ɩіkе I’m חοt getting anywhere…bυt I саח′t rest mу mind οח tһе subject еіtһеr!
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keep it simple! We got married on the beach in St JOhn, USVI last week and the only thing I had to worry about was the photographer and officient getting there. Other than that, finding the perfect villa was the ony stressful thing. The family came and we all had the best time of our lives. Even my brothers were like ‘if i get married, it will be a destination wedding’. SOme of his family had never even been on a plane and were sooo pleased that they got a vacation out of it. Best time of our lives
stop and breathe, my mom would just stop go outside and breathe, than hit up pleased hour!
there’s nothing better than a note book to write things down as you reckon of them and to also cross off as you look after them. there are lots of self help type books/articles out there to help you organize your plans excellent luck and dont sweat the small stuff
You could always elope to Vegas.
Me and my wife got married about 6 months ago. She got more frustrated than me (she also did most the preparation, while i provided the cash flow). She questioned for help when she started getting overwhelmed (she also smoked more). We had an benefit because we lived with my parents so my mom was alway aptly there to help her.
That’s the best way i reckon. Question for help. But also make sure that they know it is YOUR wedding, so all decisions must go owing to you first.
If it gets really terrible, go out for a ‘girls’ night. To whereever, movies, dinner just out having fun.
okay…cool down. breathe… I was like this for the first month of preparation as well. I kept jumping back and forth between different themes, and couldn’t make up my mind on anything. don’t worry, it will click! Start with where you want it, and the date of course. Go visit the site b/c more then likely they have some sort of color theme going on that might clash with whatever your choose, so save yourself some heartache and go look there first. When I went to look at mine, I found out that they have these wonderful white illumination that make the room glow…that was my "click" moment, because aptly then and there I chose to have a winter theme to my wedding, and everything is coming together now, no stressing!
So cool down, breathe, and wait for that "click" moment! Excellent luck!
I have been preparation for about 10 months now with my mom and we just try to take one thing at a time, and I try to find fun things to do besides the wedding when I can.
Just try to spread things out as best you can, excellent luck!
You are doing maybe three things incorrect:
1. Too much preparation too quick.
2. Being too specific.
3. Not having enough help.
Take #1 above: Break down what has to be done into lists of "when to do". Take first things first. i.e., you don’t have to worry about the color of the tuxes now.
#2: Be prepared mentally to make changes. Things you want will have to be changed for one reason or another. Expect it. Don’t fight it.
#3. Don’t be worried to question for help….even if you don’t take it some of it is excellent and not what you were thinking.
Relax. It’s only a party.
it doesn’t stop. i am beginning to wonder myself who ever said this was fun. i guess it is, when things go aptly & everyone is on the same page. but that isn’t always the case. i just step away from it for a day & relax. you can’t get much done when your frustrated. i registered on http://www.theknot.com & reckon it is wonderful. keeps you organized & tells you when & what you should be concentrating on. also lets you add your own reminders. check it out, kinda helped keep me sane.
go and get a manicure and you might be better!
try registering on the knot.com its free and it help you see how your doing with the preparation administer and help so you won’t forget anything. Just make sure you relax occasionally otherwise you will overact it and it won’t be fun anymore.
For me, I work out. I go for a nice long walk outside. Or I make sure my fiance and I go out on a day adventure-with the rule of no talking about wedding stuff.
Basically, do whatever you would normally do to destress-if that’s a spa day, go for it. If that’s hours in a Spinning class, go for that. A touch that takes you from the zone of frustration and lets your mind veg out.
Excellent luck!! Just know you aren’t alone!