Ladies, wаѕ уουr fiancee helpful οr a hindrance.
Mе, I picked tһе food tһаt wаѕ all.
It seemed Ɩіkе mу wife аחԁ һеr mother wеrе never closer, уеt tһеу аƖѕο appeared tο dislike аחԁ irratiated wіtһ each οtһеr.
Oops, I ԁіԁ forget tһаt I prearranged fοr two helicopters tο transport mу Marine buddies tο tһе wedding.
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My tuxedo and best man that’s it. I didn’t mind, her father paid for everything else.
From what I can remember, my dad picked the ushers and his best man (dur), and doubtless had some input in the food and choosing the synagogue. But he said that my mom was really reasonable throughout the administer.
My husband and I picked the venue (a B&B), picked out the flowers and cake together…we did it all together, now that I reckon about it.
I do NOT want a wedding. People never believe how much I do NOT want a wedding. I want to elope. My bf does not. I told him we could have a wedding if HE plans it. Just tell me when to show up (I’d get my dress and and pick the bride’s maids. They can choose on a dress for themselves). His response "If you’re serious, I’ll do it."
Of course I’d still much prefer to elope, but I guess I’ve dug a hole for myself.
My husband took care of his tux and the best man’s tux (we each had only one attendant). He and his family took care of the honeymoon and the photographer, he helped figure out the food with me, and he booked the church for the wedding and reception. He doubtless did a few other things but I can’t remember. The best was the honeymoon even if; he didn’t even tell me where we were going until well after the wedding! It was such a surprise.
He was helpful. I doubtless annoyed him a bit by showing him every small detail of the plans - clothes, decorations, flowers, on and on. Poor guy. lol
Fantastic question! I wanted to have a nice wedding, but I didn’t want
to go broke in the administer. We didn’t have fiscal help. So, because we were sharing the costs and we both wanted a memorable wedding, my fiance helped make all the decisions. He was fantastic- even helped with flowers, invitations, the cake- everything! we turned it into a mutual project.
My husband was pretty caught up.
We did most of the preparation by ourselves, my bridesmaids didn’t do a whole lot, and my mom didn’t really do anything.
I figured it was about me and him, it should be BY me and him.
He…
Prearranged meetings with photographers, set the appointment for our date photos, called around and got all of the addresses for his half of the guest list, he helped make the favors, He completely took care of the hotel preparations for guests, he organized the honeymoon, he took care of the rentals, He even was there the daylight of helping to set everything up.
He was very helpful, the wedding was a joint effort for us, and reflected OUR taste, not just mine, or that of all the gals I know.. just the two of us.
The only 2 things I questions my husband to do is show up on time and pay half the bills which he did a fantastic job at.
i kept out of the way and made a prenuptial agreement
Our wedding plot was as follows:
1) Take a day off work together and go to travel agent. We said send us wherever you can abroad for £2000 and we want to get married.
2) They said Jamaica? We said yes
3) We went to the shops on a friday night and I bought my wedding dress from BHS which is a high street chain that sells wedding dresses
4) We flew to Jamiaca 4 months later. When we got there they said what colour flowers does the bride want to hold and my hubbys buttonhole. We picked purple and white.
5) We got married and they booked us in to the fancy hotel restaurant for dinner and made us a chocolate cake with our names on.
So in small neither of us did anything. I dont know why anyone would plot a wedding. We were drinking cocktails on the beach a couple of hours before our ceremony